When a friend or family member is coping with a serious illness, it can be difficult to find the right way to communicate. Members of our staff at Issels® share five simple and practical tips to express support for a loved one who is undergoing cancer treatment.

1. Schedule personal visits.

*Be considerate of your friend’s needs. Always call first and don’t take it personally if they can’t see you.

*Begin and end the visit with a hug, handshake or other warm physical contact.

*Visit during “off-hours,” such as weekday mornings, rather than weekends or holidays when others are likely to visit.

2. Call and send notes.

*Return any calls or messages from your friend as soon as possible.

*Frequency is more important than length.

3. Engage in conversation.

*Ask questions to keep the focus on your friend’s thoughts and feelings.

*Discuss sports, books or other topics that bring pleasure to your friend.

*Allow your loved one to express their feelings honestly, without trying to change the tone of the conversation.

4. Handle errands and projects.

*Offer to take over one or more regular errands, such as mowing the lawn, that will help ease the load.

*Don’t forget to ask the caregiver if you can run any errands for them as well.

5. Give gifts.

*Bigger isn’t always better. Choose small gifts that will be immediately useful, and give them often.

*A gift to the caretaker will be equally appreciated by the one who is undergoing cancer treatment.

*If your loved one has financial obstacles, consider seeking donations or organizing fundraisers.

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